An Extrovert Who has People-Issues

When people hear the word extrovert, they usually think that that person is very sociable, outgoing, rarely alone, and people-oriented. Well, they are half right because there are some of us who are very extroverted but has a lot of issues when it comes to communicating and being with other people which is very contradicting to the term, Extrovert. Here are some things that extroverts with people-issues do:

1, You cut people who are getting to close Everyone loves their friends may it be an introvert or an extrovert but as an extrovert, they always crave companionship but sometimes, when you hang out with the person quite a lot and spilled almost everything to them, it gets really ___. Next thing you know, this type of extroverts are looking for another person to go with and tries to distinguish any relationship with the former slowly but surely.

2. You feel like no one really likes you

You become a floater, you can hang out with anyone and everyone but it gets really tough sometimes when you don't really have that "person" or circle and being in constant motion with different people makes you feel like an outsider and thinking that you're just simply temporary and replaceable with everyone which also, contributes to #1.

3. You isolate yourself but for a short time only

Okay, so with all that emotion and anxiety (maybe) built-up, you just need to regroup and collect yourself before going out there again and embrace these different people but not for long though, because as much as your mind tells you that you need to be alone, your spirit or your body just can't handle that. Stimulation from being with other people is simply like no other.

4. Alone time means going to a crowded part/mall on your own and people-watch Sometimes, you just don't want to talk but you wanna be surrounded by other people and just observe them. It's nice to be an outsider sometimes.

5. You talk a lot of strangers Going out on your own is not a big issue to you and sometimes, when you finally get out of your mood you just talk to whoever who is available around you. You go to a place where people who has the same interests with you go to, for example, at the museums, park, gym, grocery store. Basically anywhere and everywhere as long as you're in a good mood you can just talk to anyone with about anything under the sun.

6. You like talking to yourself There is no one better to have a conversation with than yourself. Since you are aware of your issues, you use this to reason out with yourself once you realize that you're just overthinking things and that things will eventually make sense. Or you know, you just have this guilty pleasure that you don't want anyone to know about so you fangirl on your own quiet space.

7. YouTube is your best friend With all that anxiety and distrust, you just turn to the internet when you have no one else to talk to either by watching Youtubers talk non-sense or just listening to music and watching pet videos.

8. You write a lot

Other than talking to yourself, you like to reflect and write all your emotions on paper in order to understand your feelings better and to be able to continue with your day and start communicating with others.